Deepthroating is when someone gives a person fellatio (a blowjob) but
much deeper, taking the phallus so deep that it penetrates the
oesophagus. Gag reflexes can triggered when anything that could be a
choking hazard reaches the uvula (the tear drop shaped flesh at the back
of the mouth). So why try do do something that can literally make you
vomit?
There are two key incentives for trying this unique sexual
experience. The first is psychological. It take practice to learn how to
do it thus it’s a prime way of demonstrating sexual prowess. There’s
also a lot of power play involved, the giver (person giving oral sex by
taking the phallus into their mouth) can either take a submissive role
allowing themselves to be penetrated in such a lewd fashion. At the same
time the receiver offers the giver a great deal of power too as when
the receiver (the person who is being pleasured by the giver's mouth)
reach such dizzying heights they are helpless and at the mercy of the
giver.
The other incentive is far more simple. It feels good. The giver can
feel empowered giving their partner such a deep and unique form of
pleasure. Giving deep-throat is guaranteed to impress the receiver and
it is very pleasurable. If you like giving fellatio you’ll love doing
deep-throat. The sensation for the receiver is very unique with the
tight soft sensation of good anal sex whilst simultaneously simulating
the pleasant wet massaging sensation of good vaginal sex.
It is important to note that there is a difference between deepthroat
and just taking it all in your mouth. The average person’s mouth is
about six inches deep with the uvula being located at the very back of
the mouth. Deepthroating takes it even further past the uvula and
literally penetrates the oesophagus much like how a sword swallower at a
carnival show can dip a long metal blade down their neck without
gagging.
What are the risks?
As with any sexual activity there are risks. The number one risks to
the receiver are sharp teeth and sexually transmitted disease (which can
be prevented with condoms). If the receiver gets carried away with
someone who is inexperienced then there is also the risk that it may
cause them to vomit.
Most of the risks are taken by the giver. It takes a great deal of
trust as the receiver can cause damage to the tissues in the throat of
the giver or they may choke if the receiver gets too excited and gets
carried away with someone who is still learning.
If the giver is rather well endowed and quite thick they need to be
even more careful. If they just shove it down someone's throat then it
will be very unpleasant and could even cause a minor injury or other
complications. There is a slight risk that if the receiver is too rough
they may over stretch the throat of the giver and cause a sore throat or
even minor tissue damage such a swelling or slight tearing. However, if
you treat deep throat with the same respect you should anal penetration
then everything will be absolutely fine.
What are the benefits
For the giver the benefits are mostly psychological, if you get off
on giving blowjobs or pleasing your partner then deepthroating is
definitely worth trying for a while. If you’re not a natural then
you’ll have to practice, a journey which is almost as frilling as the
destination and also there’s the joy of working towards and achieving
common a goal.
If you enjoy having the power to make your partner weak in the knees
perhaps even begg for it then it’s worth a try. Deepthroating can also
be a form great form of submission, allowing your partner to violate a
part of your body not meant for penetration for their pleasure is a
great form of submission which some may find degrading in a very
arousing way.
If being a little dirty or slutty makes you feel good or you find it
empowering to take someone in your mouth and give them the ride of their
life then its also worth trying. It takes a great deal of skill and
talent to deep throat and please someone which makes it all the more
frilling and exciting for those that feel empowered or free being
promiscuous or uninhibited in the bedroom. It is a skill and most people
will find it very impressive.
The benefits for the receiver are not that much different than
fellatio only the sensations can be much more stronger and the fact that
it requires a more talented partner makes it all the more exciting.
Once the receiver is more experienced the giver will be able to “Fuck
their throat”. Which has all the pleasant sensations of anal or vaginal
sex but with far fewer risks and if they swallow no mess.
Another mutually beneficial prospect is that it is very gratifying
when the giver swallows which also leaves no mess however not everyone
likes the taste of seamen. If a person ejaculates inside the oesophagus
then they essentially bypass the giver’s mouth and all their taste
buds. The receiver gets the gratification of having their partner
swallow their load and the giver doesn’t have to taste it if they don’t
want to. They can pull back and let the receiver cum in their mouth if
they do like the taste.
How to practice
Alway work your way to the back of your mouth slowly and stop if it
feels uncomfortable. Deepthroat training is like stretching muscles or
contortion, when you reach your limit stop and hold it there for a few
seconds and try to go a little further next time. Focus on staying calm
and relaxed, try to get used to it. In time you will desensitise your
gag reflexes.
You will not be able to breath (at least not to begin with) while you
have a shaft down your neck. While giving fellatio practice breathing
in when pulling back and breathing out as the shaft goes into your mouth
until it becomes second nature. This will help you to breathe naturally
and relax more when you are ready to go deeper.
There is more bacteria in the mouth than on the typical person’s
genitals or even the average toilet seat! Some bacteria can cause gum
infections and bad breath. As part of your oral hygiene regimen when
brushing your teeth you should also brush your tongue as well. This will
help keep it clean and remove any excess bacteria that has built up on
the tongue.
It is also an ideal and discrete opportunity to practice training
your gag reflexes. When brushing your tongue try to see how far back you
can get your toothbrush without gagging and practice trying to relax.
Deep throat is just like anal, staying relaxed is key.
Try sucking on phallic shaped ice pop/ lollies. Such as the Twizzler
or Fruit Pastel ice lollies sold in the UK. You could practice with any
phallic shape food such as a banana but ice lollies are the safest as
they will melt in the body before they become a serious choking hazard.
The closest thing to the real thing is a rubber or silicone dildo.
You may need to start small and work your way up to longer thicker
dildos and it is best to lubricate them. It is easier to fantasise with a
dildo which can be ideal while masturbating or as foreplay. It's good
to have fun and enjoy yourself while practising!
Top Tips
If you’re unintentionally gagging or vomiting then you’re pushing yourself too far, keep trying but remember to take it easy.
If your throat feels sore or raw then it’s time to stop and try another day.
Don’t go strait for the back of your neck. Slowly build up taking a
little more with each stroke if you can. Take your time, relax and take
it to the next level when you feel confident.
As with blowjobs it’s OK to use your hands, hold the shaft, use your
hand as a stopper to control how deep they go even if they get carried
away in the heat of the moment.
With anal sex especially when you’re starting out you should always
use as much lube as possible. The same applies to deepthroat, there is a
reason why there’s such a thing as flavoured lube. Though not as
important as with anal, you should definitely try lube when you’re
starting out.
Again just like anal if you’re new to it and aren’t entirely sure
what you’re doing or if that’s what you’re both into it can get quite
messy. Vaginas can produce discharge, the anus can excrete faecal matter
and the mouth can eject vomit. These are all normal bodily functions.
It's not very likely if you're careful but accidents can happen even if
you’re well versed and fully prepared. Be grown up about any mishaps
that may happen.
Stay hydrated and use your saliva to keep things sloppy. Sloppy and
messy is always better. It will feel more pleasurable for the receiver
and more pleasant and easier for the giver.
Stop and catch your breath if you need to, you can keep them going with your hand.
Try humming or swallowing as they pass your uluva, this will raise
the pallet out of the way a little making more room for the head to pop
in and also reducing the chances of triggering your gag reflexes.
The length of the mouth is at a right angle to the oesophagus, by
raising the chin as far as possible they both become aligned allowing
the shaft to pass down it.
Positioning is Key
There are three ideal positions for deepthroat oral sex. Each one has
it’s own advantages and dis-advantages. It’s worth trying all of them
to see which one works best for you. Whichever position is best for the
giver should always be the preferred method as they are doing all the
work and need to be as comfortable as possible.
Sixty Nine position: The sixty nine position is a good choice especially for the more
experienced participants as it allows mutual gratification. The giver
should ideally go on top of the receiver as going on top gives them more
control over how deep their partner can go and they can pull away when
they need to. The best part about the sixty nine position is that when
the giver raises their chin it will naturally align with the receivers
shaft making it much easier to penetrate the mouth and throat.
If the giver is underneath the receiver then they need to have a
great deal of restraint when penetrating the throat of an inexperienced
giver. It is not recommended for the inexperienced.
Receiver Laying on their Back: This can be a very comfortable position for both parties. The giver has
much more control in this position which can make it feel more
empowering and they can also pull away at any time much more easily.
They can even take a more dominant role by restraining the receiver.
On Your Knees: With the giver on their knees and the receiver either stood up or sat
down is a very common position. It can make for very good alignment of
the mouth, throat and shaft if the giver uses their hands to guide it.
Conclusion
Deepthroating can be a very pleasurable and empowering experience
which is definitely worth trying and practising if both parties are
interested. If you’re a natural and you fit like a glove first time with
no hiccups that’s wonderful but for most people don’t expect to become a
pro overnight. Most people will need to practice for weeks before they
get any good at it. Treat deep-throat the same as anal sex. Start slow
and gentle, with lots of trust and communication and keep practising
until it’s effortless and it will be very enjoyable.
