What is Deepthroating?
Deepthroating is when someone gives a person fellatio (a blowjob) but much deeper, taking the phallus so deep that it penetrates the oesophagus. Gag reflexes can triggered when anything that could be a choking hazard reaches the uvula (the tear drop shaped flesh at the back of the mouth). So why try do do something that can literally make you vomit?
There are two key incentives for trying this unique sexual experience. The first is psychological. It take practice to learn how to do it thus it’s a prime way of demonstrating sexual prowess. There’s also a lot of power play involved, the giver (person giving oral sex by taking the phallus into their mouth) can either take a submissive role allowing themselves to be penetrated in such a lewd fashion. At the same time the receiver offers the giver a great deal of power too as when the receiver (the person who is being pleasured by the giver's mouth) reach such dizzying heights they are helpless and at the mercy of the giver.
The other incentive is far more simple. It feels good. The giver can feel empowered giving their partner such a deep and unique form of pleasure. Giving deep-throat is guaranteed to impress the receiver and it is very pleasurable. If you like giving fellatio you’ll love doing deep-throat. The sensation for the receiver is very unique with the tight soft sensation of good anal sex whilst simultaneously simulating the pleasant wet massaging sensation of good vaginal sex.
It is important to note that there is a difference between deepthroat and just taking it all in your mouth. The average person’s mouth is about six inches deep with the uvula being located at the very back of the mouth. Deepthroating takes it even further past the uvula and literally penetrates the oesophagus much like how a sword swallower at a carnival show can dip a long metal blade down their neck without gagging.
What are the risks?
As with any sexual activity there are risks. The number one risks to the receiver are sharp teeth and sexually transmitted disease (which can be prevented with condoms). If the receiver gets carried away with someone who is inexperienced then there is also the risk that it may cause them to vomit.
Most of the risks are taken by the giver. It takes a great deal of trust as the receiver can cause damage to the tissues in the throat of the giver or they may choke if the receiver gets too excited and gets carried away with someone who is still learning.
If the giver is rather well endowed and quite thick they need to be even more careful. If they just shove it down someone's throat then it will be very unpleasant and could even cause a minor injury or other complications. There is a slight risk that if the receiver is too rough they may over stretch the throat of the giver and cause a sore throat or even minor tissue damage such a swelling or slight tearing. However, if you treat deep throat with the same respect you should anal penetration then everything will be absolutely fine.
What are the benefits
For the giver the benefits are mostly psychological, if you get off on giving blowjobs or pleasing your partner then deepthroating is definitely worth trying for a while. If you’re not a natural then you’ll have to practice, a journey which is almost as frilling as the destination and also there’s the joy of working towards and achieving common a goal.
If you enjoy having the power to make your partner weak in the knees perhaps even begg for it then it’s worth a try. Deepthroating can also be a form great form of submission, allowing your partner to violate a part of your body not meant for penetration for their pleasure is a great form of submission which some may find degrading in a very arousing way.
If being a little dirty or slutty makes you feel good or you find it empowering to take someone in your mouth and give them the ride of their life then its also worth trying. It takes a great deal of skill and talent to deep throat and please someone which makes it all the more frilling and exciting for those that feel empowered or free being promiscuous or uninhibited in the bedroom. It is a skill and most people will find it very impressive.
The benefits for the receiver are not that much different than fellatio only the sensations can be much more stronger and the fact that it requires a more talented partner makes it all the more exciting. Once the receiver is more experienced the giver will be able to “Fuck their throat”. Which has all the pleasant sensations of anal or vaginal sex but with far fewer risks and if they swallow no mess.
Another mutually beneficial prospect is that it is very gratifying when the giver swallows which also leaves no mess however not everyone likes the taste of seamen. If a person ejaculates inside the oesophagus then they essentially bypass the giver’s mouth and all their taste buds. The receiver gets the gratification of having their partner swallow their load and the giver doesn’t have to taste it if they don’t want to. They can pull back and let the receiver cum in their mouth if they do like the taste.
How to practice
Alway work your way to the back of your mouth slowly and stop if it feels uncomfortable. Deepthroat training is like stretching muscles or contortion, when you reach your limit stop and hold it there for a few seconds and try to go a little further next time. Focus on staying calm and relaxed, try to get used to it. In time you will desensitise your gag reflexes.
You will not be able to breath (at least not to begin with) while you have a shaft down your neck. While giving fellatio practice breathing in when pulling back and breathing out as the shaft goes into your mouth until it becomes second nature. This will help you to breathe naturally and relax more when you are ready to go deeper.
There is more bacteria in the mouth than on the typical person’s genitals or even the average toilet seat! Some bacteria can cause gum infections and bad breath. As part of your oral hygiene regimen when brushing your teeth you should also brush your tongue as well. This will help keep it clean and remove any excess bacteria that has built up on the tongue.
It is also an ideal and discrete opportunity to practice training your gag reflexes. When brushing your tongue try to see how far back you can get your toothbrush without gagging and practice trying to relax. Deep throat is just like anal, staying relaxed is key.
Try sucking on phallic shaped ice pop/ lollies. Such as the Twizzler or Fruit Pastel ice lollies sold in the UK. You could practice with any phallic shape food such as a banana but ice lollies are the safest as they will melt in the body before they become a serious choking hazard.
The closest thing to the real thing is a rubber or silicone dildo. You may need to start small and work your way up to longer thicker dildos and it is best to lubricate them. It is easier to fantasise with a dildo which can be ideal while masturbating or as foreplay. It's good to have fun and enjoy yourself while practising!
Top Tips
If you’re unintentionally gagging or vomiting then you’re pushing yourself too far, keep trying but remember to take it easy.
If your throat feels sore or raw then it’s time to stop and try another day.
Don’t go strait for the back of your neck. Slowly build up taking a little more with each stroke if you can. Take your time, relax and take it to the next level when you feel confident.
As with blowjobs it’s OK to use your hands, hold the shaft, use your hand as a stopper to control how deep they go even if they get carried away in the heat of the moment.
With anal sex especially when you’re starting out you should always use as much lube as possible. The same applies to deepthroat, there is a reason why there’s such a thing as flavoured lube. Though not as important as with anal, you should definitely try lube when you’re starting out.
Again just like anal if you’re new to it and aren’t entirely sure what you’re doing or if that’s what you’re both into it can get quite messy. Vaginas can produce discharge, the anus can excrete faecal matter and the mouth can eject vomit. These are all normal bodily functions. It's not very likely if you're careful but accidents can happen even if you’re well versed and fully prepared. Be grown up about any mishaps that may happen.
Stay hydrated and use your saliva to keep things sloppy. Sloppy and messy is always better. It will feel more pleasurable for the receiver and more pleasant and easier for the giver.
Stop and catch your breath if you need to, you can keep them going with your hand.
Try humming or swallowing as they pass your uluva, this will raise the pallet out of the way a little making more room for the head to pop in and also reducing the chances of triggering your gag reflexes.
The length of the mouth is at a right angle to the oesophagus, by raising the chin as far as possible they both become aligned allowing the shaft to pass down it.
Positioning is Key
There are three ideal positions for deepthroat oral sex. Each one has it’s own advantages and dis-advantages. It’s worth trying all of them to see which one works best for you. Whichever position is best for the giver should always be the preferred method as they are doing all the work and need to be as comfortable as possible.
Sixty Nine position: The sixty nine position is a good choice especially for the more experienced participants as it allows mutual gratification. The giver should ideally go on top of the receiver as going on top gives them more control over how deep their partner can go and they can pull away when they need to. The best part about the sixty nine position is that when the giver raises their chin it will naturally align with the receivers shaft making it much easier to penetrate the mouth and throat.
If the giver is underneath the receiver then they need to have a great deal of restraint when penetrating the throat of an inexperienced giver. It is not recommended for the inexperienced.
Receiver Laying on their Back: This can be a very comfortable position for both parties. The giver has much more control in this position which can make it feel more empowering and they can also pull away at any time much more easily. They can even take a more dominant role by restraining the receiver.
On Your Knees: With the giver on their knees and the receiver either stood up or sat down is a very common position. It can make for very good alignment of the mouth, throat and shaft if the giver uses their hands to guide it.
Conclusion
Deepthroating can be a very pleasurable and empowering experience which is definitely worth trying and practising if both parties are interested. If you’re a natural and you fit like a glove first time with no hiccups that’s wonderful but for most people don’t expect to become a pro overnight. Most people will need to practice for weeks before they get any good at it. Treat deep-throat the same as anal sex. Start slow and gentle, with lots of trust and communication and keep practising until it’s effortless and it will be very enjoyable.
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